Your freedom ain’t yours?
I happened to talk to one of my friend(lady) today. Asked her to join evening party that we couple of friends have planned to go for… She said that she so badly wanna be with us, but apparently her husband(who’s abroad for last one year) wont allow her.
I was wondering how can your personal freedom is in some one’s yes or no? Of course we do love them… But sometimes I feel it as kind of sadist attitude that when U r angry or u cant enjoy you cant see others enjoying.. Well.. That’s something I cant digest( No offence meant, just a personal Point Of view).
And one answer she said almost surprised me.. “You have the freedom from everywhere. But I don’t have it. Neither from family nor from my husband)”
This really made me think…!! How does me & she differ here? Why do I have all the freedom in the world & where as she doesn’t have one or two from them.
And the only answer I could come across was “CHOICE”!!! I think that its about the choice that you make… If you choose to be Happy & so are you… If you choose to be free(without strings attached), so will you be… But if you wish to be in cage, don’t even dare of flying.. Cos its the choice that you made & you are allowing others rule over you…
The one that really love you cant come in the way fulfillment of your wishes… They will be there for you & will make it happen before you wish for anything… Things are very much applicable viceversa as well…
Freedom is your choice & not anyones benevolence!!
